Okay here is what is going on–

Our riding lawnmower broke about 10 days ago. We can’t find a belt that fits it, so we had to order one. It has been about 10 days since our lawn was cut- we have over half an acre of grass.
Today I got fed up with the insanely long grass and weeds and the shabbiness of the yard, so I called a lawncare place to get someone over to cut the lawn till our mower is fixed. It is going to be $30 to totally do the yard- weeding, cutting the grass and trimming. So I booked the guy to come tomorrow. My fiance got home from work and I told him and he FLIPPED OUT. He started screaming about how it makes him feel lazy and worthless and that it’s like I said to him that he is so lazy he can’t cut his own lawn. Then he started wigging out about the $25 (which I am paying from tip money from work), and told me I basically told him hes a lazy worthless bum for not cutting the lawn.
I have NOOOOO clue what pissed him off so bad.
Help me sort this out with him- I told him thats totally not what I meant to do and that I just wanted it to be one less thing to worry about because he mentions every time we’re outside hwo bad the lawn looks that it would be one thing I could take care of for him.

What can I say to him to make him chill out?! he’s downstairs freaking out to his buddy about it… !!!

you are trying to do the right thing. my rider broke 2 years ago and my wife was gonna call a lawn service in. i said oh no you wont we still have a push mower, she said you dont have time, i said i will make time so i did, and you know what ? every week it takes me an hour and a half but i do it. its 3/4 of an acre but its better then having someone else do it . why? its a guy thing dont even try to understand. good luck.